Living without Drama

Man I don’t know if it’s a good thing or not but I can say that the last couple of weeks have been kind of boring. It’s good because for now there is no drama and no one wants to have drama in their lives. But I did happen to have something kind of funny happen to me this week. When I was growing up it could be said that I had a lot of friends. Now what I mean is I had a lot of people that I use to hang out with. But I only had a couple of really good friends. Now one of my really good friends was “spanky”. Now I call her Spanky just because that will be her name. LOL Well I was in target shopping for you know the crap that people need to live. Well I am picking up some deodorant so that I don’t smell like the local bum. When I see this little girl knocking stuff off the rack. LOL you know just trying to show off in front of her mother not being bad really but still. So I made the “joke” oh you are just making a mess aren’t you? Then the mother looks at me and says what’s your name? So I told her my first name and then she told me my last name. OH my god it was Spanky. I have not talked or seen Spanky for over 15 years. Oh my god I couldn’t believe this. Now California is a huge state and Los Angeles is a bigger city then most people will ever been in. Once you lose touch with someone it’s really hard to even hope to meet up with them again. It’s even harder if you don’t have any of the same people in common. Now I have moved about no less than 5 times since last I talked with spanky. So this is one of the last people I expected to run into. We traded numbers and plan on really catching up. But from the few little moments that we had to talk I found out that she has 3 kids. I knew about one so that is how I knew just how long it’s been since I had seen her. She has been married and now she isn’t and the youngest kid has a different father than the rest. I so have to get the rest of this story because I am sure I am going to be laughing about how this all happened.
The other major thing to happen to me this week was a date. I kind of like this girl. We have never been out together so this will be fun. I go to her bar sometimes and we laugh and have fun together. Now this was going to be a Block party over by my best friends place. This is going to be a lot of drinking and me being picked on because that is what my best friend’s family loves to do. They pick on me mostly because of the fact that I can’t find a steady female to settle down with. This young lady is very nice but I have to say a little out of control when she gets to drinking. Which for the most part I wouldn’t have any problem with. But this time I think that it kind of bit me on the ass this time. Oh it’s bad when you go somewhere where everyone there is drinkers. It’s one of the great things that I love about my buddy’s family. They party and party hard. Well it would seem that when I wasn’t looking. Mostly during the pay per view fight that was on. The ladies of the family started taking shots with their friends Jose, Johnny and JD. Oh wow it was fun to watch and I know if the booze wasn’t flowing it might have been a different end to the night. LOL oh well we are making plans to go somewhere else and have a real date. LOL we will see how that goes.