Let me tell you all a Secret

Ok first thing. We men are not mind readers. When you tell us something we take it as the way it is. We are not trying to read your mind. We are not trying to get to the real meaning of what you are saying. We go off of face value and believe that what you are saying to is for real. The reason I bring this up is I heard back from my birthday date. After two months she decides to email me to tell me “too bad I pushed her”. Well after the first reaction of hearing from her after two months. I had to say WHAT THE FUCK are you talking about? The whole night that we had planed was always something that we both talked about. Every step of the way I would ask is this alright? Is that alright with you? I never just did something and not tell her about. And every step of the way not only did she agree. But she said she was looking forward to doing this. Now she is trying to tell me she got scared off and just didn't know how to tell me she was scared. I'm calling BS on that one. Well with all that being said I do have to admit. I am not one of the more tactful people when I have been screwed over. I had no problem telling her that she had been replaced and I didn't even care what she had to say. Now I have been planning on going to Las Vegas for about a month now. I needed to get away and have some fun. I had talked my best friend into going also. So it was going to turn into a boys weekend in Vegas. Yes I know it could be dangerous. Well his wife though so also so now she is going. And his cousin was also going and he was going with his girlfriend. OH great, I'm going to Vegas with two couples. Yea right I would lose my damn mind. So a friend of mine that I have been talking to for the last 3 years. She came back to Calif from PA back in January. We had dinner with a couple of mutual friends of our. We had a great time and spend the evening laughing and having a great time. Well we had been wanting to go to Las Vegas for the last two years. This is the first time that the trip was really something we could do. So We are going to Vegas and having one hell of a good time. I will have to take a lot of pictures and let you know just how things go. Now we are friends so it's not like we are going as a girlfriend/boyfriend thing. It's just two friends splitting a trip to Vegas. Now how does that sound as a make up for the birthday trip? LOL